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Pregnancy loss and miscarriage<\/h2>\n\n

Just a warning before reading this post: the subject matter and content we are discussing in this article are difficult. We provide answers and information in an attempt to destigmatize pregnancy<\/a> loss. If you are dealing with the loss of a baby, our heart and support is with you<\/strong>.<\/p>\n\n

Did you know that more than 10% of pregnancies end in miscarriage?<\/strong> However, the issue has been largely secret. If we want to change the way we talk about miscarriage<\/a>, the name itself should be changed. After all, the negative connotation of “miscarriage” falsely suggests that a woman has done something wrong.<\/strong>. Below we will answer some questions about pregnancy loss and what happens after the loss of a baby.<\/p>\n\n

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There is no “easier” miscarriage.<\/h3>\n\n

This is a loss. While some would say it is easier if it is within a few months, there is no such thing as an “easy” miscarriage. Yes, you will have had less time to develop a connection with your baby, but nonetheless, you will have felt the joy of watching him or her grow. If it is before, it is likely that you did not tell many people and, therefore, you are probably suffering on your own or with your partner.<\/p>\n\n

It’s hard when you keep the secret of your pain. In addition, a late-stage miscarriage comes with its own pain and challenges. It is difficult to have to spread the sad news as many are excited about the baby and many of their items have already been purchased.<\/p>\n\n

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My boyfriend or husband is also grieving<\/h3>\n\n

Many assume that this is a grief felt only by the woman, since she was the one carrying the baby. Men are in a very difficult situation here because they are not only trying to comfort their partner, but they are also experiencing the loss<\/strong>. Joyfully anticipating the arrival of a new baby is not an exclusively maternal emotion.<\/p>\n\n

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“My body failed me.”<\/h3>\n\n

Many women believe that their calling in life is to have a baby. All too often, when a miscarriage occurs, the woman not only grieves, but also feels guilty.<\/strong>. Doctors usually do not know what happened, but one thing is certain: the woman did not “lose” the baby.<\/p>\n\n

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It’s more complicated than people think<\/h3>\n\n

Because this is still a taboo subject, painful details are not talked about. These are some of the moments they were not prepared for:<\/p>\n\n