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How do you explain cremation to young children?
How to tell a child about someone’s death
Whether your pet has passed away or if there has been a death in the family and you want to bring your child to the funeral, talking about death with children is never easy.
Death is a somewhat complex and perhaps too dark a subject for a child. In fact, most parents don’t even like to mention the word death in front of their young children.
The “death talk” with children
Many parents seem to firmly believe that talking about death with their children could leave them horrified and may even scare them for life.
But, at the same time, it is important for children to attend events such as a funeral. Attending such events will not only strengthen a child’s belief in death, but also teach him or her how to properly honor a loved one who passed away.
How old should my child be before I talk to them about death?
It is not about the child’s age but about his or her maturity. As soon as you think your child can grasp big concepts without any difficulty, you should let him or her know what death is. Some children will be able to handle such conversations before age 5, while others may take two years longer.
Some parents also like to lie about death to their children, saying things like “death is like sleeping”; this is wrong. Whatever you do, don’t lie about what death is.
Tips for explaining cremation to a child
- Using very polite words and avoiding any aggressive details, you should inform a child about the death.
- Try to remain comfortable, calm and collected while explaining this sensitive topic to a child, or else he or she may pick up on your emotions.
- Do not use complicated words and language; use only words that the child can easily understand and simplify the explanation.
- While explaining, avoid using words such as “burned” and “fire” as they may frighten the child.
- Your explanation should make it clear that the deceased suffers no harm during cremation, as the body feels no pain.
- If you believe in the concept of a soul or afterlife, comfort the child with these beliefs to help him or her accept the fact that their loved one is no longer in the form of a body.
- You can make the child feel better by explaining that the deceased person has returned to God and his or her body has been returned to earth with respect.
- Sharing information about the cremation process with your child can help him or her heal. When you are concerned about the extent of details to share, simply answer their questions honestly and provide only as much information as the child requests.
- Do NOT call cremated remains “ashes”. If you call them “ashes,” you won’t be able to empty an ashtray for years without the kids getting mad because you’re dumping on grandpa.
Going to a funeral with children
When it comes to taking them to a funeral, explain clearly what a funeral is and what will happen. Let them know that if they see some adults crying, it’s okay.
As for viewing the body, let the child decide whether he/she wants to see the body or not. When allowing the child to view the body, make sure the child is in the care of a close relative who can answer the child’s questions or take the child away in case he or she is overwhelmed.
You can simply make it clear to the child that, in the cremation process, the deceased is taken to a crematorium and placed in a room where it is reduced to soft, fine particles like sand. Therefore, the process helps the body return to dust.
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
What do you do when someone dies far from home or while traveling?
Unfortunately, the mental and emotional suffering that death brings to the relatives of the deceased is inexplicable. The situation becomes more difficult if the person has died in another country or city and you do not know the procedure to bring him or her back home.
In this case, you will probably need the services of two funeral homes, one in the area where the person died and one in the city or town where the deceased will be buried. Many people prefer to contact a funeral home in the city where the deceased was born so that arrangements can be made. The funeral home will coordinate transportation with a local funeral home in the city where the person died.
Here is the detailed procedure for transporting deceased family members:
Air transport services for the deceased:
Airlines provide services to obtain the required documents for the shipment of deceased persons. You will need the services of;
- Documentation assistance
- Embalming
- Coffin box
- Customs clearance
- Airline tickets
- Visas, etc.
Services for transporting deceased persons by train:
Transportation by train of family members who died within the country can be arranged at a reasonable cost only if a minimum shipping service is contracted and the funeral home takes care of the receiving process in the destination city.
Road transport services for the deceased (carriage):
Transportation of the deceased within a city or between cities is the easiest to arrange. Road transportation is a service that most funeral homes perform on an ongoing basis. Try to get a quote from at least 3 funeral homes.
Other transportation services for the deceased:
Transportation of a deceased family member may require several destinations either by air or boat or in a funeral van known as a hearse.
Take into account all the expenses that the family member arranging the death arrangements may have, such as hotels, meals, taxes, transportation, casket, tips, etc.
What is the most economical option for transporting a deceased family member?
Undoubtedly the most economical option for transporting a deceased family member is simple cremation without a funeral service. In this way, all the death certificates are obtained in the city where the person died, the death certificate is issued, the cremation of the loved one and as the urn containing the ashes is small, one can transport it in one’s own car or buy a plane ticket without so many formalities or expenses..
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
What to do to make a funeral less traumatic for a family member?
Some friends or family members who attend a funeral are traumatized or have nightmares because of how loud it can be. Here are some tips to make a funeral less traumatic for some family members:
Death is hard and emotional and there is nothing wrong with that. No one should be forced to see a loved one at his or her funeral. Some people find closure in this way, but others are happier and much better off, simply preserving their memories.. You should do what feels good to you.
Honor your family member in your own way
One suggestion would be to process and honor your family member in your own way. If you feel you want to be part of the funeral, you can volunteer for certain “jobs” such as passing out programs for the wake or, greeting acquaintances in the visitation room. That way, people can express their condolences to you and you can feel safe while you are there.
Another suggestion is inform the family in advance that you choose not to view the casket. No one should be forced to do that if they don’t want to. Tell them that you will pay your respects in a different way..
Funeral Homes or Crematories care for your loved one
First and foremost, remember that funeral homes generally take very good care of their deceased or they would not stay open for very long. They keep the bodies under their care in a refrigerated environment (not in a freezer) because it is the best way to preserve their appearance and delay the inevitable. Embalming takes this process even further and also helps kill germs.
Bodies are always treated with respect and dignity. People who work in embalming, funeral homes or crematories work there because they care about people. They care for your loved one and treat them with love and respect with the family in mind.
Before a person is prepared for a funeral, they bathe and groom themselves before dressing. This is done with great care.
Your loved one lives in your memories
Finally, remember that Once a person dies, his or her body will eventually return to the elements like any other life form. However, they live forever in your memories and in the stories you tell about them.
Our culture honors our deceased in this way and a great example of this is the Disney movie“Coco” where thanks to the memories we keep alive those who have passed away.
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
Ways to save money on funeral services
With the average cost of a funeral being close to $40,000 pesos, getting the money to pay for end-of-life services can generate a lot of anxiety during an already emotional time.
However, there are several ways to save on funeral expenses or services while planning a respectful service for the deceased.
Comparison of funeral homes
According to recent studies, more than ninety percent of people call only one funeral home at the time of need. If families cannot compare the services and prices available at various funeral homes, they may spend more than they have and go into debt or not get the services they want.
Funeral homes must provide consumers with a price list in person or by telephone.
Pre-planned
The best thing to do is to plan ahead. Eliminate the burden on your loved ones of making these difficult decisions and you can save money. Select the funeral service according to your personal preferences, and pay specific costs in advance.
Buy your own casket
A funeral home must provide a price list of its casket inventory. Use this information to compare prices and get the best value for your budget. In addition, funeral homes must accept outside caskets purchased by the family, so searching for a cheaper casket online can drastically reduce overall funeral costs.
Choose Single cremation
You can save money on funeral services by skipping the funeral altogether. Today, more than 75% of families choose cremation for their loved ones. Cremation costs tend to be lower than traditional funeral expenses because there is no need for embalming, a wake service or even a casket. You can purchase a simple cremation and arrange a memorial service afterwards, which is always less expensive and still a dignified way to say goodbye. Cremation also saves on burial, cemetery, niche, etc. expenses.
Donate your body to science
Donating your body to a medical school is a free end-of-life option that allows surviving family members to save on funeral expenses while simultaneously advancing scientific exploration. Your family can arrange to have your cremated ashes returned to you upon completion of the students’ medical or practical research.
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
Where should I place a Cremation Urn in my home?
“I never thought I would be the type of person to display an urn in my living room. Yet, here it is.”
For someone, visualizing the urn of a loved one comes naturally.
Of course, I should have a special place in my home, but Do I want it to be outdoors for all to see? Should I be in my room? Or hidden in a closet out of sight, so I can get on with my life? How close is too close?
Here are some thoughts that may help you find the right place for your loved one’s urn.
You don’t have to stay in the same place.
Like all belongings, urns are subject to movement, renewal, changes in circumstances and your mood. Unlike most belongings, urns carry a great emotional charge, making them seem much more than an object.
That’s why most people worry about finding the ‘perfect’ place for an urn. Pressing himself to decide, once and for all, where such a unique and special artifact should go is indicative of his pain. Keep in mind that it is normal to feel awkward with the urn, especially at first.
Put your urn where it makes sense.
Although it is difficult, try to separate your feelings about the urn long enough to consider where you would put it if it did not contain the ashes of a loved one. Depending on its size, color and the aesthetics of your home, there is probably an obvious place for your urn.
Depending on the size of your urn, you can place it on a side table, shelf, window sill, shelf. There are also no rules about which room an urn should go to. I have known people who display their urn in their bedroom, living room, dining room and even in the bathroom. There are no rules!
An urn does not have to be seen to be meaningful.
Incorporating an urn into your home decor may not be for you. It’s okay not to want a reminder of a death in your space.
Store the urn in a safe place: a closet or in a secure storage container (I suggest something waterproof) should be fine. With the urn stored somewhere where it is out of sight and protected, you can visit your loved one’s remains whenever you want.
Even if you have decided to keep your loved one’s remains in an urn, you do not need to leave them there forever. You may decide to bury it in a garden, scatter the ashes in the sea or a forest, or buy a niche.
If you’ve tried a few places in your home and find that the presence of the urn doesn’t feel right, there’s no rule that says you can’t change your mind. Give it to a loved one who will appreciate it. A clean and empty urn can be donated or sold.
Accept your mixed feelings.
It is natural to feel that there is no place respectful enough to keep your loved one’s cremains. Because an urn can represent so much, it can seem like a big decision.
In fact, you have more flexibility and options than you can imagine. There is no shame in any decision you make regarding storing or displaying your urn. Especially in the weeks following their death, some people find that storing an urn out of sight is an act of self-preservation. Others need it close by. Choose your own path and remember that this decision is not permanent.
Finding the right place
It is a strange presence to have the urn as it moves through the pain. There are times when you want her close; others she has to be out of sight. The final task to be accomplished in bereavement is to“find a way to maintain a connection with the person who died while embarking on your own life.” Keeping your loved one’s urn in your home can be a way to establish this lasting connection, during periods of grief and beyond.
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
Being buried with my pets’ ashes, how do I fix this?
How can I be buried with the ashes of my dogs or cats?
Many people would like to be cremated and have their ashes combined with the ashes of their pets who have passed away before so they can be together again. But how is this type of cremation service arranged?
Talk to the funeral home or crematory.
The easiest thing to do is to let your family know your wishes and when the time comes they only have to inform the funeral home or crematory. They would all be more than happy to mix the ashes if that is what the family wants.
We are not aware of any case of refusal, especially if the request is sincere and requested with love.
Designate a trusted family member
Now, there is another way to accomplish this without involving a funeral home. Designate a trusted friend or family member (who is not squeamish) with your pets’ ashes, and have them designated as the person who will pick it up after it is cremated.
The urns are easy to open if you have a screwdriver and the bags inside are plastic. Your friend can open all the urns, mix them up and bury them all in any place he wishes.
Just be very careful with the place you choose (especially if it is private), because some places have fines if you are caught scattering ashes.
Collect all ballot boxes
Another option is to simply gather the urns of all your pets next to yours in a place of your choice; either in a piece of furniture in the house, buried in the garden or in a niche.
In Mexico we are fortunately allowed to do whatever we want with cremated remains.
The size of the ballot box could come into play at some point. Depending on the size of the dogs or cats you are talking about as the amount of ash can be drastically different.
In short mixing your ashes with those of your pets is not a problem at all, finding a suitable place to bury them could be the challenge.
“It just gives me a sense of comfort, knowing that I can be with my pets after I’m gone.”? ?
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
Who will take care of my dog or cat when I die?
Pet care after the death of an owner
Whether you think of your pets simply as your loving companions, or as your (admittedly, very furry) children, you want the best for them, so it’s natural to worry about what might happen to them if you die before they do. Who will take care of pets after the death of an owner, and how can you make sure your puppies are well cared for?
Don’t worry There are ways to set up protections for pets so they get all the petting and treats they deserve when you’re not around. Here’s what you should do…
1. Think about the care that pets will need after the owner’s death.
Does your pet need a safe yard to play in, lots of time and attention, veterinary care? Do they need long walks in the morning, space to explore or lots of toys? Do they play well with other pets and children?
Before you can choose someone to care for your pet when you die, you must find out exactly what that will mean. Take the time now to make a list of:
- What your pet needs.
- How much it costs to provide those things every month and every year.
- People you know who have the time, space and (potentially) money to offer those things.
With the list in hand, you can …
2. Choose who will take care of your cat or dog when you die.
What happens to pets when their owners die? You may choose someone who has cared for your pet before, perhaps when you went on vacation, or simply a friend or relative who loves your pet and meets all the criteria on your list.
Once you have chosen someone, be sure to ask them if they are really willing to accept your pet if something were to happen to you. What happens to pets when their owners die cannot simply be decided by a will: it still needs the cooperation of the people involved.
If you don’t have a friend or relative who can take your pet, there are charities that specialize in finding reliable new owners.
Look for animal shelters in your area, this way pets are cared for in temporary homes until they can be properly rehomed.
Some shelters accept pets while their owners are in the hospital or under care, keeping them in voluntary foster homes. You can also arrange for your pet to be raised permanently with them in the event of your death.
You can have an “emergency dog or cat care” card made to carry in your wallet. This allows emergency service workers to know who to contact to make sure your puppy can be taken into their care and eventually adopted.
These shelters provide care for pets after an owner’s death, but you may still want to leave protection in your will to help them continue their lives.
3. Make provisions for your pets in a will.
Because they are legally considered property, you cannot leave money to your pets in your will. However, you can use a will to appoint a guardian for your pet, someone to care for them in the event of your death. If you already have a will, you can add to it instead of writing a new one.
When providing for pets in a will, it is a good idea to include a back-up guardian in case the person you have chosen is unable to care for your pet when the time comes.
You can leave your guardian some funds in your will specifically for the maintenance and care of your pet. This type of fund sets aside money for the care of the pet, usually with the new owner as the administrator in charge. You can also say what will happen to the remaining funds when your pet dies.
Remember: it is best to talk about your pets in general terms in the will, referring to them as “dogs” or “cats” rather than “Pancho” or “Camila”. This means that you do not have to update it if you adopt more pets.
4. Use a letter of wishes to explain how to care for your pets after your death.
A letter of wishes is a useful additional step when planning for the future of pets. It is essentially a set of instructions to help your executor and beneficiaries better understand your wishes, guarded with your will. You can use it to explain exactly how to take care of your pet: what to feed them, favorite walks or strange habits, in fact all the little things that only an owner knows.
5. Tell your family and friends what should happen to your pets if you die.
Remember, it can take a while for the will to be found after a death, so it is not always immediately clear what happens to pets when their owners die. It is a good idea to tell your friends and family what to do, carry a card in your wallet and leave instructions at home just in case.
? Don’t forget to give your pets a big hug ?
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
7 things to do when my loved one dies
The loss of a family member can lead to a sea of emotions. You may not want to do anything, or feel exactly the opposite. If you know your loved one may pass away soon, it is helpful to be prepared and have a plan of action to take when the time comes. Here are some important things to do when a loved one dies.
1. Call the funeral home and your trusted physician.
Before your loved one can be cared for by a funeral or cremation provider, a medical professional must declare him or her dead in order to issue a medical certificate of death. If your loved one has died at home, you can call the funeral home or cremation service as long as the death is from natural causes.
If your loved one has died in an accident you must first call 911 or the public prosecutor’s office.
2. Contact family and close friends
Notify immediate family and close friends. Relieve yourself of the burden by asking them to help you notify more distant connections. Arrange for children, parents and pets to be cared for. Contact your loved one’s employer.
3. Secure your properties
Make sure your loved one’s car is parked in a safe area and the house is locked. Ask someone to care for your loved one’s pets before making permanent arrangements.
4. Life Insurance
If your loved one has life insurance, he or she may be eligible for benefits to cover burial or cremation costs. Visit your insurance company’s website to find out what is covered.
5. Locate a will or personal information
It helps to have a plan. Before your loved one passes, talk to your loved one about whether he or she has a will or living trust. Help them organize their personal information for financial and digital accounts. When your loved one has passed away, locate their information and complete the deceased’s requests.
6. Plan a Wake or Celebration
Before your loved one passes, ask them how they would like to be celebrated and remembered. When the time is right, honor their wishes and celebrate their loved one’s life and impact on the world.
Store the cremation urn.
If you decided to have a cremation, you can keep the ashes at home, bury them in a garden or niche, or scatter them in your loved one’s favorite place. All are good options and choose the one that brings you the most peace.
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
Why is price transparency in cremation important?
Surveys conducted in several countries make it clear that giving consumers full pricing on cremation and transparent funeral costs will save them money.
For example, prices were analyzed in California, where state law requires prices to be published online. But a loophole in the law meant that 25 percent of funeral homes were hiding their prices from consumers.
The lack of transparency has led to price increases in the funeral home industry. For example, some cremations cost upwards of $40,000 pesos.
“I don’t think $40,000 pesos is a reasonable price for a cremation.”
Studies on cremation prices
A 2016 study also found wide variation in funeral prices. The authors of the report use a restaurant analogy to explain why inclusive pricing is also important:
Imagine a restaurant that offers a special lobster dinner on Fridays for $900 pesos.
If the restaurant followed funeral industry practices, the final bill delivered to a customer would appear this way:
- Lobster special: $ 900 pesos
- Lobster rate — $ 450 pesos
- TOTAL: $ 1,350 pesos
Unlike many competitors, Boinita will never charge hidden and exorbitant additional fees. Our transparent pricing means you know that your total cost will be $6,499 pesos, even if you have special requests.
Consumers can defend themselves armed with information and questions. You can request prices and use alternative containers for leftovers. In addition, it is not necessary to hire all the services they normally offer or special caskets.
Many of us believe that high prices should not be profited from when a person does not have a funeral package, in some cases this price can be as much as double. That is why a simple cremation without a funeral service is often the best option for most families, as it is inexpensive and very easy to arrange. Family members may hold a mass on their own or a gathering with their loved ones at a time of their choosing. You can then decide whether to keep the ashes at home, bury them in a garden or cemetery, pour them into the sea or place them in a niche. There are many options and all are correct.
Why a package price hides more than it shows
A single closed figure cannot be compared with another single closed figure. Two packages at 35,000 pesos can contain completely different things, and the family only finds out afterwards.
An itemised quote makes three questions answerable: what is actually included, what is charged by the hour, and what is an optional extra that was quietly added.
What to ask for, in writing
- The base price of the cremation or burial, on its own.
- Whether the transfer is included and up to how many kilometres.
- Whether the paperwork is included or billed separately.
- Whether the urn is included, and which one.
- What is billed by the hour, above all the wake room.
A provider who will not put that in writing is telling you something before you have signed anything.
You can also read what a funeral actually costs and how to reduce funeral costs.
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
For more information about our service go to https://boinita.com
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
In Pet Cremation Services we are located in the cities of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Chihuahua, Ciudad Juarez, Leon, Merida, Puebla, San Luis Potosi, Tijuana and Toluca.
Keeping ashes or cremation urn at home
Many people who wish to be cremated after their death would also like a loved one to keep their ashes at home. And for families, keeping ashes in their home can be a way to maintain the feeling of a close connection to the person who died.
Deciding where to place cremated remains can be complicated. You may be happy to keep the ashes in the house for the rest of your life, or you may only need to store them for a short time before scattering them.
Where to place cremation ashes
Start by choosing your urn carefully. It doesn’t have to be fancy, or even conventional, but it is important to make sure it is large enough to contain the ashes. It also needs to be sealed securely. Beyond that, it’s entirely up to you.
If you don’t plan to keep the ashes in the house forever, the urn given to you by the crematory after cremation may be all you need. Otherwise, there are a wide variety of urns, boxes and other keepsakes available, so it’s just a matter of thinking about what will work best for you.
However, it is worth considering who else might try to touch them. Maybe there are children in your home. Maybe your cat likes to push things off flat surfaces. Or perhaps your family tends to put their coats on a particular piece of furniture, making bumping likely. Try to keep ashes out of reach.
Ideas for storing ashes at home
Keeping an urn at home is quite common for those who choose to keep the ashes of a loved one, but there is no right or wrong way to store them.
If you’re looking for other ash storage ideas, here are a few you might consider:
- Mix the ashes with compost in a pot and plant something. Here, it is a good idea to choose a plant that grows easily and is well adapted to the place where you are storing it. There are also special kits that claim to offer a compost mix that works well with the ashes to grow a tree.
- Keep the ashes in a sculpture. There are indoor and outdoor sculpture urns that you can purchase as an alternative to an urn or box.
- Add ashes to jewelry. The most popular option here is to find subtle “keepsake” jewelry that may contain a small amount of ashes.
- Commissioning a work of art. There are companies that will incorporate your loved one’s ashes into concrete or glass, for sculptures, or paintings.
- Keep the ashes in a discreet place. There are ash containers designed to keep cremated remains at home in a subtle way.
Transfer ashes to a new container for home storage
If you need to move ashes to a new container, here are some tips:
- Consider asking for help. Ashes can be heavy, and you may need someone to keep the containers lined up.
- Place the target containers on a flat surface with newspaper.
- Use a funnel to keep things neat and accurate.
- Seal one container tightly before starting the next.
Other ways to store ashes after cremation.
Boinita can help you arrange a simple cremation, which is a simple cremation without a funeral service, for only $6,499 pesos. Perfect if you wish to organize your own farewell service with the ashes of a loved one at a time of your choosing.
If you prefer not to have an urn or memorial in your home, but can still “visit” your loved one, you can rent a niche in a cemetery or other memorial site.
When it comes to scattering ashes, there are all sorts of options, from planting a tree in a memorial forest to scattering them at sea. You can find more information on these in our guide to things to do with the urn after scattering the ashes.
Remember that Boinita is a Simple Cremation Service without a Funeral Service with the guarantee of the best price and service.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
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