The loss of a family member can lead to a sea of emotions. You may not want to do anything, or feel exactly the opposite. If you know your loved one may pass away soon, it is helpful to be prepared and have a plan of action to take when the time comes. Here are some important things to do when a loved one dies.
1. Call the funeral home and your trusted physician.
Before your loved one can be cared for by a funeral or cremation provider, a medical professional must declare him or her dead in order to issue a medical certificate of death. If your loved one has died at home, you can call the funeral home or cremation service as long as the death is from natural causes.
If your loved one has died in an accident you must first call 911 or the public prosecutor’s office.
2. Contact family and close friends
Notify immediate family and close friends. Relieve yourself of the burden by asking them to help you notify more distant connections. Arrange for children, parents and pets to be cared for. Contact your loved one’s employer.
3. Secure your properties
Make sure your loved one’s car is parked in a safe area and the house is locked. Ask someone to care for your loved one’s pets before making permanent arrangements.
4. Life Insurance
If your loved one has life insurance, he or she may be eligible for benefits to cover burial or cremation costs. Visit your insurance company’s website to find out what is covered.
5. Locate a will or personal information
It helps to have a plan. Before your loved one passes, talk to your loved one about whether he or she has a will or living trust. Help them organize their personal information for financial and digital accounts. When your loved one has passed away, locate their information and complete the deceased’s requests.
6. Plan a Wake or Celebration
Before your loved one passes, ask them how they would like to be celebrated and remembered. When the time is right, honor their wishes and celebrate their loved one’s life and impact on the world.
Store the cremation urn.
If you decided to have a cremation, you can keep the ashes at home, bury them in a garden or niche, or scatter them in your loved one’s favorite place. All are good options and choose the one that brings you the most peace.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
Buying a burial crypt is usually a simple business. But there are some surprising details you should know. Here is the detail of crypts in a cemetery, the prices and that mysterious term, “Exclusive Right of Burial”.
What is a cemetery plot?
A burial plot is a small area of land in which someone is, or may be, buried. It may contain only one person or a few, such as a couple or a family. Generally, you don’t actually buy a burial crypt as a plot of land. Instead, you buy the right to decide who is buried in that land for a certain number of years. It is more like a lease.
What is the exclusive right of burial?
Having the exclusive right of burial means that you have the right to say who is buried in a particular burial plot. You may also place a monument (such as a headstone) on the grave.
Obtaining a grant of exclusive burial rights is not the same as purchasing a plot of land for burial. It does not mean that you are the owner of the land. It is closer to renting or leasing. And like all income, it has a time limit.
How long does the exclusive right of burial last?
Cemeteries generally offer an exclusive burial right for a crypt for 25 to 100 years. Once it expires, the owner will be asked if they wish to renew.
How to buy a grave in the cemetery?
Cemeteries are generally privately owned or owned by a religious organization (such as a church). But there are also government cemeteries.
Generally, a burial plan is not guaranteed in a funeral plan, as it is a third-party service and prices change. You can purchase a burial crypt separately to be on the safe side.
If you have purchased a cemetery plot for burial, it is a good idea to mention it as an asset in your will. You should also make sure that your family knows where to find the grant of exclusive burial rights.
How much does a burial crypt cost?
The average cost of a burial plot in Mexico is $25,000 pesos. But rates vary widely throughout the country. In rural areas, the prices of funerary tombs are usually very economical VS in the cities, which can multiply several times their price.
On a budget? In addition to the average price of a cemetery plot, it is also worth considering the cost of a headstone or memorial plaque.
What happens when your exclusive right of burial is exhausted?
If you do not renew, the person who has been buried may still remain there. No one will move his body. But other people may be buried around or on top of them at a later date.
If there is a monument on the grave, you can raise it and take it to another place. Otherwise, the cemetery or graveyard may destroy it.
How to transfer or share the exclusive right of burial?
If you have the exclusive right of burial for a crypt, you can decide who is buried there for the duration of the lease.
If you wish, you may ask the cemetery to make you and another person co-owners of the crypt. This means that both have the same right to choose who is buried there, and both can be buried there when they die.
You can also pass on your exclusive right of burial when you make your will.
If you die without a will, the property will automatically pass to your next of kin. It is usually your spouse/civil partner, or shared between your children if you are not related. If this means that the crypt is shared among too many people, it can be awkward, as everyone has to agree before someone can be buried. Therefore, it is a good idea to make a will and clarify things.
What is a forest burial ground?
A forest burial plot is an area of land in a forest or natural environment where someone can be buried.
Forest burial crypts are dedicated to ecological farewells. The deceased is buried using natural and biodegradable fabrics and in an ecological coffin. Embalming is generally prohibited.
Many forest cemeteries do not allow memorial stones. However, you can plant a tree or place a bird box to mark the spot.
Things to think about when buying a tomb
What should you consider before buying a tomb? Well…
Cemetery or forest cemetery? A forest cemetery is more environmentally friendly and less costly. But a cemetery allows you a monument and will probably be closer to home.
Visit the future cemetery in advance and get to know the place. It should be convenient and a place you are happy to visit.
Compare costs. Cemetery rates vary quite a bit! And often, they also offer different types of crypts at different prices. The mausoleum chambers are the most expensive.
Who will be buried there? If you want more than one person to be buried, make sure there is space. You can buy two spaces together. A single crypt can hold up to three people or up to six urns of ashes.
Cremation first? In some cemeteries, you may purchase a smaller burial plot for cremated remains only. These are less expensive than casket plots.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
For those who wish to plan ahead, paying for a funeral plan can be an excellent way to ensure that you are financially prepared for the costs associated with burial and cremation services. While there are other alternatives, such as life insurance, or investing, we will explore them all below.
What is a funeral plan?
A funeral plan sets aside a funeral at today’s prices. With a funeral plan, you pay a pre-established amount of money to cover the cost of your future funeral services, the full amount of which is released at the time of your death to cover all agreed-upon expenses.
This protects the client from the annual price and fee increases we are currently seeing in the funeral industry. With the price of a funeral rising much faster than inflation, the average funeral is expected to be a financial hardship for many families.
What are the advantages of a funeral package?
In addition to setting aside your funeral at current prices, a funeral plan gives you greater control over the details of your funeral.
It also gives you the opportunity to choose your preferred funeral home, ensuring that your funeral is not in the hands of someone you have not directly approved.
What does a funeral plan usually include?
They usually do not cover all funeral costs, but most will include:
Funeral home fees. This would generally include collecting the deceased, transporting them to the funeral, arranging the funeral service, paperwork, and basic care of the deceased (washing and dressing them, for example).
The coffin. This could be a simple, inexpensive casket or a more elaborate wooden casket.
Hearse or hearse. Basic plans will generally include the cost of hiring a hearse to take the deceased person to his or her funeral and to the cemetery or crematory. You may also be offered additional funeral cars or limousines for the family at an additional cost.
Administrative expenses. Most providers will charge an administrative fee for their work in setting up the plan.
Cancellation fees. Some providers will charge you if you wish to cancel your funeral plan at a later date.
It is important to check the fine print of any funeral plan you purchase to make sure what is covered and what is not.
Because funeral plan providers cannot control all the costs involved in a funeral, your family may have to pay a little more when the time comes. But the plan must cover all or most of the services you will need.
How do funeral packages work?
You can purchase a funeral plan by paying in advance or in installments. The money goes into a fund with an insurance policy, which will be used to pay for the service when the time comes.
Depending on where you purchase your funeral plan, you may be asked to choose between different packages. A higher cost package could include more funeral cars, a more decorative casket and potentially more flexibility with the time and date of the funeral.
Can you pay for funerals monthly in advance?
A funeral service plan saves your family the stress of planning and paying for your funeral by arranging everything in advance.
If you are interested in purchasing a funeral plan, the questions you should ask a provider are:
What costs are not included in my funeral plan?
Is it possible to cancel or modify the plan if circumstances change?
Is there a cancellation fee?
What happens if there are outstanding payments at the time of death?
Do I have to use a certain funeral company?
Can the family make changes to the funeral if they wish?
What happens if death occurs abroad?
Is there a clear complaints procedure?
What happens if the Funeral Home closes?
If you wish to have the funeral in another state or municipality, is it possible?
What are the alternatives to a funeral package?
Insurance Policies
Advantages Life insurance policies.
Lifetime protection for age 50 and over will pay an agreed amount at the time of death. This means that it may go some way toward covering funeral costs, depending on how comprehensive your coverage is. It is often the best option because your family receives a larger amount than a funeral home package would cover.
Disadvantages Life insurance policies.
Funeral plans require you to pay a fixed amount, while life insurance requires a regular payment until the time of death. Depending on how long you live, there can be a big difference between these two figures.
Life insurance costs can also be extremely high if you have pre-existing health conditions, whereas this is irrelevant in a funeral plan.
Funeral plans also allow for much greater control and put all important decisions in your hands. With some insurance products, you may not even have a say in whether you want to be buried or cremated.
Savings and investment accounts
Most savings accounts do not generate much interest at this time, but you can always set aside a portion of your savings to pay for funeral expenses. Other alternatives, such as investing money, can help pay for funeral expenses.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
Funerals can cost much more than people expect and it is not uncommon for family members of the deceased to pay up to $80,000 for afuneral service. With many factors to consider, such as burial fees, flowers, transportation, paperwork, niches and reception, costs can begin to mount, which can put a family under financial strain in a time of distress.
Fortunately, there are several ways to reduce funeral costs and keep expenses manageable. Here we take a look at five of the best ways to limit the amount of money you spend on a funeral.
Burial and cremation fees
Burial and cremation fees can often be one of the most expensive aspects of a funeral. This is particularly true in downtown areas where space is at a premium. Alternatives to keep costs down may include the choice of natural burial or direct cremation.
A natural burial involves a burial in a protected area with a beautiful garden where the deceased are returned to the earth in the most natural way possible. It is generally considered much better for the environment.
Similarly, you may opt for a simple cremation. This occurs outside of peak crematory hours and mourners cannot be present at the cremation. The ashes are returned to the family after the service. This is much cheaper than the classic burial or cremation options and any money you save can be used to remember the deceased through a suitable memorial service organized by the family.
Coach or limousine transportation
It is often considered traditional to have limousines driving to the funeral service. However, this is a matter of personal preference and can certainly reduce funeral costs if you reduce transportation.
Depending on where the service takes place, the family can make its own way, allowing the money to be spent in more essential areas. It may happen that funeral directors exert a little pressure in an effort to convince you that optional extras such as transportation are essential for a proper funeral. However, the choice should be left up to you to decide what you do and do not want for the funeral, and remember that your choice in this matter is final.
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If you wish to hold a wake or memorial service, there are several ways to reduce costs. There is no right or wrong way, so do what you think is best and try to plan within your means.
Instead of hiring a large venue, the wake can be held at the home of the deceased or at the home of a family member. Similarly, the responsibility for the meal can be shared among all the guests, and everyone brings a dish to share.
Fundraising or Crowdfunding
A more modern way to reduce funeral costs is through the use of crowdfunding. Instead of one family member or part of the family assuming full financial responsibility, those who knew the deceased can donate to help cover expenses.
This can be a fantastic way to cover the cost of a funeral and bring people together to remember the deceased. When everyone has invested something, no matter how small, there is often a sense of greater participation in the proceedings among all those present. This also makes it possible for family and friends living abroad to feel involved and contribute to the funeral.
Use a comparison site
Finally, one of the best ways to reduce funeral costs is by using a price comparison site. You can save time and money, and this can greatly simplify the planning process, allowing you to take full control of the funeral you are looking to arrange.
Plan ahead
If you have the luxury of time before you or a loved one passes away, you may want to consider taking out a funeral plan or life insurance.
Take out a monthly payment plan
While a financing plan actually increases the final cost of your funeral, many find it more manageable to pay your funeral costs over the course of a year or two, rather than paying it up front. When you take out a month-to-month plan you can manage your payments, and if you are waiting for your inheritance to arrive, this credit can make a lot of sense.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
About 70% of all funerals in Mexico involve cremation, but until you attend one, the cremation process can seem a bit mysterious. But it doesn’t have to be that way.
Whether you are arranging a funeral with a cremation, attending one as a guest or just curious about how it works, this guide will explain what happens at a cremation and how the cremation process works, covering:
What is cremation?
What happens in a cremation service?
What happens during the cremation process?
How is a cremation organized and how much does it cost?
What is cremation?
Cremation is a process that transforms the remains of a person who has died into “ashes” using intense heat. These ashes are, in fact, small bone fragments. Once cremation is completed, the ashes are returned to the family of the person who has died.
The machine used to cremate bodies is called a crematory furnace. The place where cremations take place is called a crematorium.
What happens in a cremation service?
If you haven’t attended a funeral with a cremation before, you may be wondering what to expect: how long does a cremation service take and what do guests need to know?
Did you know? A cremation without a funeral service is called a “direct cremation”. This costs much less than a standard cremation. You can get more information about direct cremation in San Luis Potosi here to arrange it with Boinita, where the single price is $ 6,499 pesos.
What happens during the cremation process?
The cremation itself usually occurs on the day of death. So how exactly does cremation work? We have put together some frequently asked questions about the process to help you.
How is a body prepared for cremation?
After the funeral home has picked up the deceased, they will keep the deceased in a cool, temperature-controlled room at the funeral home. Embalming is not required for cremation, although some families request it.
Before the funeral, the person who has died will be washed and dressed in the clothing chosen by his or her family. Jewelry may be worn, but it is advised that anything of sentimental value be removed prior to the actual cremation.
Funeral directors always remove clocks, as the batteries can explode in the crematory. For the same reason, pacemakers and other medical devices should be removed prior to cremation.
What can you put in a casket for cremation?
Cards, letters and photographs are usually fine, but it is best to ask the crematory about any other items.
Synthetic clothing, rubber-soled shoes and stuffed animals are generally not allowed, as well as hollow items such as bottles, exploding containers. Battery-operated items, such as cell phones, should also be removed from the casket prior to cremation.
What happens during the actual cremation? How long does cremation take?
Before cremation takes place, the cremation chamber is heated to about 870-980 ºC (870-980 ºF). The coffin is then placed in the chamber, where it is lit by a column of flames. Cremation lasts approximately three to four hours, after which only bone fragments remain. These are left to cool for about 30 minutes. A powerful magnet is then used to extract metal fragments from the ashes. A type of grinder called a creminator is then used to convert the bone fragments into a fine grayish-white powder. The ashes are placed in a container called an urn and given to the family.
Do you have to have a casket for cremation?
Depends on the crematorium. Many crematories require a casket, as this makes it much easier to place the body in the crematory. Others do not require it and place the body on a flat board.
What happens to the casket during the cremation process?
The casket will be cremated along with the person who has died. During the cremation process, the casket will be burned first, leaving only small traces.
Can the family observe the cremation process?
This will depend on the crematory, but many will allow one or two family members to observe the cremation. Currently, in times of COVID-19, entry to crematories is not allowed by government orders, in order to avoid contagions.
Do you ever cremate more than one person at a time?
No: human cremators can only take one casket at a time, so all cremations are performed separately. The crematory could make exceptions in special circumstances, such as if the family had asked if a mother and baby could be cremated together.
How long after cremation will you get the ashes?
The ashes will usually be ready for collection approximately one day after death. If the family has not chosen a specific urn for the ashes, they will come in a simple container.
Who gets the ashes after cremation?
The funeral home will generally pick up the ashes from the crematory on behalf of the family and then deliver them along with the Certificate of Cremation.
Many people wonder who has the rights to the ashes after cremation. The crematory will generally return the ashes to the family member named on the cremation form or to the funeral director. If you are collecting the ashes yourself, it is important to bring a form of official identification.
Not sure what to do with the ashes after a cremation? Here are some ideas from our blog Boinita.
How to organize a cremation
If you wish to arrange a cremation, your first step is to find a good service.
How much does cremation cost?
The average cost of a funeral with cremation is around $25,000 pesos. This is much less than the burial, which generally costs around $34,000 pesos.
A direct cremation, where there is no funeral service, is even less. Reaching around $6,499 pesos at Boinita.
What documentation is needed for the cremation process to continue?
Medical certificate of death. It must be issued by a physician, either the one who was treating the deceased, or another physician at the hospital who confirms the death. In case you do not have a physician to issue it, Boinita can send one at an additional cost ($1,400 pesos).
Official identification of the deceased. Copy of INE credential, passport or official identity document.
Birth certificate (true copy of the book or electronic).
Marriage certificate in case the deceased is married (Copy).
Official identification of the person who will be responsible for the service. Original and copy.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
Making funeral planning arrangements can be difficult, whether you are planning a full service or a cremation service in San Luis Potosi for someone close to you or simply planning your own funeral in advance. There are many decisions to be made.
This article is here to guide you through the process from start to finish, with suggested timings to help you if you are arranging a funeral, take your time to follow the steps below.
How to plan a funeral step by step
The funeral planning checklist below should be taken as a friendly guide, rather than instructions, just as every family is different, every funeral is also different.
1) Find a funeral director or funeral home to plan the funeral with you.
You don’t need a funeral director to plan a funeral, but many people find them a great help. If you don’t already have someone in mind, it’s a good idea to compare a few different funeral homes in terms of prices, reviews and whether they offer the services you need.
2) Planning a funeral for a loved one? Check first your willingness for any plan
If you are unsure how to plan a funeral for a loved one, it is worth consulting their will (if there is one) for instructions. You can also ask family members about their wishes.
3) Plan the funeral with your chosen funeral director.
Once you have chosen a funeral director, they will set up a meeting with you to discuss all the different things to plan for at a funeral. This usually takes one or two hours.
Most funeral directors can come to your home to plan the funeral with you, which can facilitate the conversation.
At this point, these would be some of the questions:
Would you like to organize a cremation or burial?
Cremation is the most popular option, with 70% of people preferring it over burial. This may be due to cost: in general, cremation is less expensive than burial and you do not have to pay any fees (monthly or yearly), and direct cremation (cremation without funeral service) is the least expensive option in San Luis Potosi. While most burials take place in local authority-owned cemeteries, “natural” green burials are on the rise, and most funeral directors are now able to offer them. Less common options are private burial (at home, for example) and burial at sea.
Which casket or urn would you prefer?
There are many different types of caskets and urns to choose from, and it can be a bit overwhelming. If you find a casket or urn you like online, it’s okay to buy it and give it to your funeral director.
Would you like to visit your loved one at the funeral home?
Some families find it helpful to come and see the person who died during their time at the funeral home. This is sometimes called a “visit”. Many funeral homes have small, quiet rooms (often called “Chapels of Rest”) for this, where families and close friends can be in private.
Would you like to embalm the body?
Funeral homes perform embalming: washing, dressing and preparing the body of the person who has died so that it looks tidy and peaceful.
Some funeral directors also offer a “hygienic treatment”, where the body is carefully treated with chemicals to preserve it for a longer period of time. This is often suggested when the body is to be repatriated from abroad.
Natural burial grounds generally will not accept bodies that have been embalmed, as the chemicals used in the process are considered harmful to the environment.
What should the person who has died wear?
While some religions require particular burial or cremation clothing, otherwise it is an individual decision. Some people would like to be buried in their favorite clothes, while others may want a fresh new outfit.
If the person who died is to be cremated, it is important to remove metal jewelry first, as this can melt.
Would you like some funeral transportation?
The funeral director will ask you if and how you would like them to hire a vehicle to transport guests to the funeral home. Some funeral homes provide special vehicles and transportation upon request.
While this may be good, it is cheaper to use your own cars.
Where and when would you like the funeral to be held?
There are a few things to consider when choosing the time and date of a funeral. Like weddings, funerals held on weekends can be more expensive.
You will also need to choose a location for the service and reception, if you have one.
Do you want flowers?
Funeral flowers can be arranged through the funeral director or independently.
4) Plan the funeral service with a speaker or religious representative.
Anyone can officiate at a funeral, so if you are not religious, you can ask a speaker to do it. When meeting to discuss the organization of the funeral service, it may be helpful to bring photos and prepare some personal stories to tell. You are also likely to be asked:
Would you like any hymns, songs or classical music for the funeral?
Would you like any specific funeral poems, prayers or readings?
Would you like a theme or special features for a personal service?
What would you like your guests to wear?
How long should the funeral last?
5) Start creating the obituary
The eulogy is the main speech given at the funeral, while the obituary is an (optional) announcement of the death and details of the funeral. Obituaries can be published online or in a newspaper. If you are planning your own funeral, you can gather information in advance to help your family when the time comes.
There are some websites that collect memories, photos and videos of friends and family. On these pages you can tell your story and invite acquaintances to the service.
Do you organize your own funeral?
Remember to keep your funeral wishes in a safe place and let your family know where they are; you can even add them to your will, if you wish. If you are interested in paying for most of your funeral in advance, you might also consider setting up a prepaid funeral plan, although most of the time it is better to have life insurance as we explain in the article Why you may not want to prepay your Funeral?
6) Share the time, place and date of the funeral service.
Once you have finished planning the funeral service, it is time to make calls to inform friends and family of your arrangements. You can also share an obituary online on social media or by email, or pay to publish a death notice in the local newspaper.
7) Organize the flowers
If you are organizing your own floral arrangements, it will probably take a few hours. It is useful to go around and compare opinions and prices.
8) Create the order of service
The order of service is a basic schedule for funeral guests, but many families see it as an opportunity to express their loved one’s personality as well. Generally, the order of service will include biographical information and images of the person who passed away, along with all readings, prayers and songs to be included in the funeral service.
9) Attend the funeral
People grieve in very different ways; it is important to know that there is no right or wrong way to feel at a funeral. Do what you need to do to get to the end of the day and remember to lean on the support of friends and family.
10) Send thank you notes and donate flowers.
You do not have to send thank you notes to those who attended the funeral or sent you cards, but you may do so if you wish. Another thing to consider is the flowers that guests may have sent or brought to the service. While you may want to keep some of the flowers in your home, you can donate the unwanted ones to prevent them from going to waste.
It is perfectly normal to ask someone else to write thank you notes if you need help.
11) Collect the ashes
If your loved one was cremated, you or the funeral director should be able to pick up the ashes from the crematory. In Bonita we personally deliver the urn to your home.
12) Start thinking about the tombstone.
Choosing a memorial stone is a very personal thing, but there is no hurry: it will take some time before it can be added to a grave.
13) Seek bereavement counseling, if needed.
Losing someone close to you can be overwhelmingly difficult. If you find that you need help after you’ve finished planning a loved one’s funeral, whether it’s a sympathetic ear or practical advice, there are organizations that can help.
What happens after the funeral is planned?
After the funeral, the next step is to begin the process of settling the estate of the person who has passed away based on his or her will.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
When someone dies, it is not always clear what your next step should be. There’s a lot to take care of and it can be overwhelming. We’ve created this guide to help.
We will cover all the key things to do after someone dies:
If you are not the next of kin or the person named in their hospital records, then it is also important to contact them now to tell them the news.
This is what you should do after someone dies:
What to do when someone dies at home
When someone dies at home, the first thing you should do is call your family doctor to have a medical death certificate made out. If you do not have a doctor, Boinita can provide one at a cost of $1,400 pesos.
If you need someone to pick up the body, your next step is to contact your local funeral home or crematory. If you are interested in taking care of your body at home, ask your doctor or nurse for advice.
When someone dies at home, they are usually not eligible for organ donation. Inform the general practitioner and funeral director if you wish to explore this option.
But what happens when someone dies at home during the night? If the death was natural and expected, it is okay to wait until morning before contacting a physician.
What to do when someone dies in a hospital
The medical staff will be there to advise you on what happens when someone dies in the hospital. If the person who died is registered as an organ donor, it is important to inform them as soon as possible so that steps can be taken to make this happen.
Hospitals generally have a bereavement team that steps in to support families after a death. You will be given a number to contact them for more information and to make an appointment.
If the person who died lived alone, you may want to return to the home at this time to make sure it is safe and make arrangements for their pets, if they have any, before returning home.
At the hospital they will give you the medical certificate of the cause of death, advise you on your next steps and help you arrange for the collection of your belongings.
When someone dies in a hospital, their body is held in the morgue until a funeral home or crematory can pick it up.
What to do if someone dies in a nursing home
The first step is to call your primary care physician. The nursing home care staff can make the call for you and will usually give you some time alone with the person who died to say goodbye.
When ready, you can arrange for the body to be picked up by the funeral home or crematory.
What to do when someone dies in an accident
Call 911 as soon as possible to request an ambulance and police. Stay in line with the operator and follow his instructions. Try not to modify too much the area where the person died.
When someone dies unexpectedly or under suspicious circumstances, paramedics and police will contact the coroner, who will then investigate the cause of death.
The coroner will usually arrange for a funeral home to pick up the body and take it to the morgue for an autopsy. This does not mean that you are obligated to use that funeral home to arrange the funeral.
When the coroner has determined the cause of death, they will provide you with the appropriate forms to register the death and release the body for burial. This may take some time.
How to find a funeral home after someone has passed away
A funeral home can pick up the body of the deceased and assist you in arranging the funeral. For this reason, finding a funeral home is often at the top of the list of things to do after a physician certifies a death.
If you don’t already have someone in mind, you can use our “Simple Cremation without a Funeral Service” service.Simple Cremation without a Funeral Service“in which we offer the best service at the best price.
Once you have chosen a funeral home, the person who has died will be picked up, but you must register the death before funeral arrangements can begin.
How to register a death
When someone dies, their death must be registered with the government. It is best to do this at the Civil Registry Office nearest you. In this type of procedures, Boinita can help you and it is already included in our package.
If you are in Mexico you should register the death within the first few days, preferably the day after the death.
Who can register a death?
To register a death, they must go:
Two close relatives of the person who died (ideally)
Someone from the funeral home as a witness.
What do you need to register a death?
The main things you need to bring to register a death are:
The medical certificate of the cause of death.
Birth certificate of the person who died (copy)
Your INE card, passport or official ID (copy)
Your marriage certificate (copy)
Official identification of the person who will be responsible for the service (original and copy).
Once you have registered the death, the Civil Registry Office will give you: The Death Certificate and the Death Certificate. Registering a death does not cost anything if it is on a weekday before 7 pm. It is a good idea to obtain three or four official copies of the Death Certificate for later use.
Whom to tell in the first days after a death
Telling people about a death can be emotionally very difficult. If possible, share this task with close relatives or friends of the deceased.
If each of you volunteers to notify others, this can facilitate this task. Here’s who to notify shortly after someone passes away:
Friends and relatives of the deceased.
Your boss or employer.
Your university or school.
Your primary care physician, if you have not already contacted them.
Your landlord, if you have been renting a home.
Your own boss, to request permission to be absent.
Health and social care professionals, to cancel any upcoming appointments.
In the coming weeks, there will be more people and organizations to call, but this should be enough for now.
Whom to tell in the first weeks after a death
Who do you inform when someone dies, other than family and friends? Once you have registered a death at the Civil Registry office, you can begin notifying government and financial organizations, as well as various businesses. We have created a list of who to tell when someone dies here:
Governmental organizations to notify after a death:
When registering a death, it is important to remember these types of government offices as well.
If the person who died had a firearms license, report it.
Infonavit.
IMSS or ISSSTE.
Financial organizations to notify after a death:
The bank.
Pension providers.
Credit and store card companies.
Insurance companies.
The mortgage provider.
Other companies and organizations to notify after a death:
How to liquidate the estate of someone who has passed away
Remember to make your will
When someone dies, their estate (their money, property and assets) must be transferred to their heirs. Often referred to as“probate,” the estate administration process can take between 9 and 12 months.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
Coronavirus and a Funeral in San Luis Potosi: Paying Tribute Despite the Encirclement
Funeral ceremonies have been limited in the number of people present. This limitation is very difficult for family members who wish to be present on the day of the funeral . What options are possible with funerals in San Luis Potosi and Coronavirus?
Some services are available, such as live streaming of the funeral service. Even this service is becoming more popular as social networking becomes easier and easier, however, it is difficult to achieve these services in real time and include not only family members but also friends.
Since March, most funeral homes have been under containment to reduce the spread of covid-19 in San Luis Potosi and throughout the country. With respect to the funeral, certain rules have been established:
Most crematoria have forbidden ceremonies.
Only a close-knit family may attend the funeral and the number of participants is limited to a maximum number of people.
A distance of one meter is recommended and any physical proximity should be excluded.
The Coronavirus and a Funeral in San Luis Potosi: paying tribute despite the enclosure
Attending funerals over the Internet, a way to recover despite confinement
Already available in the United States, attending funerals broadcast live over the Internet is now possible in Mexico. Therefore, all families can attend the funeral from their homes.
The service is available at any location that authorizes it and allows access to 4G WiFi Internet with a smartphone, tablet or computer that can film the ceremony.
Create an online scrapbook
If you are unable to go to the ceremony site, you can suggest to those around you that you can show your presence by sharing a testimony, a memento, a photo in a collection of mementos. Cousins, neighbors, colleagues, friends… everyone can participate, together, in a collective and positive approach.
It is enough to collect online, with those who have known him, testimonies and photos in tribute to the missing loved ones. Participants are guided by specific questions such as “How did you meet the deceased?” What did you talk about the last time you saw him? Do you have a photo of him to share with us? “
Living mourning is very personal. Everyone evolves at their own pace and the current situation may prevent some from making healthy progress. Therefore, a memorial service may be a solution when possible again.
During a commemoration ceremony, a master of ceremonies is present to welcome the participants. Memories, messages and photos are shared.
It is also an opportunity for families to practice rituals that could not be performed during the funeral.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
A Humanist Funeral is a non-religious ceremony that celebrates the life of someone who has passed away. This type of service can be conducted by a speakeror you can simply arrange your own funeral with your loved one’s ashes present.
A humanist funeral is a ceremony that celebrates the life of someone who has died without mentioning a religion or a god. This type of service is often led by a speaker, who guides guests through any readings and music.
More generally, a humanist funeral is any type of non-religious memorial service. If you prefer not to have a guided ceremony with a speaker, you can wait until you have your loved one’s ashes and then arrange a simple memorial service.
Where can you hold a humanist funeral?
Humanist funeral ceremonies generally take place in a crematorium, cemetery or natural burial ground. However, if you choose to arrange a direct cremation, you can arrange your own memorial service with your loved one’s ashes.
These are just some of the places where you could have a memorial service:
Hotel event space
Your home
Garden
Public park
Restaurant
What Happens at a Humanist Funeral?
What happens at a humanist funeral really depends on the person who died and the people who organize the funeral. If the person who died was not religious but was fairly traditional, he or she could follow the established format:
Music plays when the service begins.
The speaker welcomes guests and sets the tone with a reflection on what it means to celebrate a life and say goodbye.
The speaker or a close family member reads the tribute: this is essentially the same as a eulogy and covers the life and character of your loved one.
Friends and family stand up to give readings.
The speaker asks for a moment of silence to think.
The coffin or urn is moved out of sight.
The speaker shares some closing anecdotes and thanks the guests for their attendance.
The music plays when the guests leave.
If the person who died was not religious and was more of a free spirit, you could arrange a direct cremation and have a more informal memorial service at their favorite park, beach or location. You may even choose to scatter your ashes with friends and family present.
If your loved one left a will, it is also worth checking to see if they left specific wishes about their funeral.
If the person who died was not religious and was more of a free spirit, a direct cremation could be arranged. direct cremation and have a more informal memorial service at their park, beach or favorite place. You may even choose to scatter your ashes with friends and family present. If your loved one left a will, it is also worth checking to see if they left specific wishes about their funeral.
Who conducts a Humanist Funeral?
A humanist funeral is usually performed by a speaker. They are responsible for conducting the ceremony while helping family and friends pay their respects to their loved one.
Alternatively, if you are arranging a simpler memorial service with your loved one’s ashes present, you may conduct the ceremony yourself. This could include such things as:
To say a few words to thank everyone for attending.
Place your loved one’s ashes somewhere for everyone to pay their respects.
Play songs that remind everyone of your loved one.
Invite friends and family to say something.
How Much Does a Humanist Funeral Cost?
The cost of a humanist funeral can vary from $5,000 pesos to around $50,000 pesos depending on the type of service you want. This generally breaks down into three specific costs: the funeral and the speaker’s fee.
Funeral Home Rates
In addition to paying for the burial or cremation, there are also additional fees to consider for things like a funeral: flowers, catering and transportation. Together, these costs average around $20,000 pesos, but you can create a funeral for less by arranging things yourself.
Speaker Fees
If you want a speaker to lead the ceremony, this will cost between $4,000 and $8,000 pesos depending on what is involved and where you are located in the country.
What to Wear to a Humanist Funeral?
Every humanist funeral is different, so it is always best to talk to the person arranging it if you are unsure of what to wear. If it’s a fairly formal affair, something smart and discreet would be a safe bet. However, many people now specify that guests should wear bright colors to help make the occasion feel less morbid and more like a celebration. If your loved one left a will, they may have included wishes indicating what they want people to use.
How to Organize a Humanist Funeral?
You can organize a humanist funeral today by calling Boinita. We can take care of the cremation of your loved one starting at only $6,499 pesos. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
Funeral homes often promote the benefits of the prepaid or futures plans they sell. The idea is that it will save your family money and heartache when the time comes.
But the truth is, it is generally not advisable to pay in advance, why you may not want to pay in advance for your funeral. Users may not understand the contracts, be aware of their existence, or be surprised when faced with additional fees. In addition, many states do not have adequate consumer protections, which puts your money at risk.
Understanding prepayment vs. immediate payment
How does prepayment differ from immediate payment? The difference comes down to money. The prearrangement allows you to choose the cremation or burial, as well as its provider. You also get an upfront advantage on the paperwork required at the time of need and a discount on the final price. Unfortunately, there is not much information online on how much these services cost if they are needed on an emergency basis.
Funeral savings alternatives
Many families would struggle to cover an expense of $15,000 pesos or more, so planning ahead and saving is crucial to avoid overburdening your family. While some families resort to a joint (friends and acquaintances) funeral, there are easier ways to avoid that route.
Some banks offer life insurance which are a better decision than paying a prepayment at a funeral home. With a bank account, you will earn interest and have money in case of an emergency, as well as provide money for your family when you die. Just remember to share your plan with others.
You should also make sure that your beneficiaries are up-to-date on their insurance and investment accounts.
Questions to consider while planning
As you make your end-of-life decisions, consider these questions:
What is the size of the expenditure you are planning for?
How far in advance are you planning?
What flexibility do you require with respect to time?
What is the financial security of your family members and/or beneficiaries?
Know your rights
No matter how you choose to plan your settlement payment, make sure you know your rights.
If you still consider a prepaid funeral plan, for example: what happens to the money you have prepaid and the interest income on that money, and what happens if the funeral home moves or goes bankrupt? Making an informed decision is a gift you can leave to your family that will live on long after you are gone.
At Boinita we can take care of the cremation of your loved one. Then, once we have returned the ashes to you, you can arrange a simple memorial service that is perfect for you and your family.
Boinita offers Single Cremation services without a Funeral Service, with a fixed price and 24-7 customer service. Boinita is located in the metropolitan areas of Aguascalientes, Cancun, Hermosillo, Merida and San Luis Potosi.
